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Lisa J. Marshall's avatar

oh Adam, once again your writing makes me weep, full of poignant joy. You are leading us--and yourself--forward, step by heartbreaking and beautiful step.

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Sam Lloyd's avatar

I always enjoy your work. This letter gave me much to think on. I am familiar with NVC, though my perspective is that it is usually wielded as a weapon, and used selfishly, and certainly in a violent way! I had a gut reaction against it and none of my experiences with it since have changed that. I love the perspective of being needed and not needy. I try to practice this in my own life, and am humbled by how one's own needs are met a thousand times over when one's focus is on meeting the needs of others.

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